Do Your Beliefs Help You or Hurt You?

March 13th, 2008

The majority of people don’t think they will ever live the life they want. Usually it’s because they’ve been told their goals are crazy or impossible, and they won’t ever achieve them. Kids are very impressionable, and will believe almost anything they’re told by parents and authority leaders.

As a result, most of the population doesn’t put forth much effort in anything they do, because they don’t believe they’ll succeed anyway. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Sometimes all it takes is belief to finally reach your goals. When you change your beliefs about what is possible, suddenly things become more clear and you realize achieving a particular goal is not as difficult or impossible as it once seemed.

To do this, you must challenge your beliefs. Beliefs are only true as long as you think they are. In fact the dictionary defition of a belief is: Assent to a proposition or affirmation, or the acceptance of a fact, opinion, or assertion as real or true, without immediate personal knowledge.

You may feel liberated when you realize you get to decide NOT to believe a certain limitation you have. Once you make the decision not to be limited by these negative beliefs anymore, you’ll realize you actually can be much more than you’re letting yourself.

Don’t fall victim to the idea that something must be true because it’s what other people believe. Just because a lot of people once believed the world was flat didn’t make it true.

I was once told, “if you want to be rich, don’t take advice from broke people”. I’m sure you’ll agree that’s pretty great advice.

If you have a certain attitude about whether or not you can succeed at something - take a closer look at where you got that belief. Did you pick it up from people who are not successful?

Question the beliefs you have constantly. Sticking with your current beliefs can be comfortable and safe, but staying in your comfort zone will never get you anywhere.

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